In Los Angeles gay men have been meeting for sex in bathhouses for most of the Twentieth Century. One of the city's earliest bathhouses opened prior to 1922. Located on 4th Street in downtown, the "Palace Turkish Baths" originally operated as a straight venue, offering massages and Turkish Baths facilities, but it gradually evolved into a clandestine gay bathhouse. Currently, it operates as KLYT Baths, a venue well-known for its Latino clientele. During the 1940s it was said to have been a favorite haunt of Rock Hudson and some lesser-known film stars of the day. According to the author's great-uncle, Joe Therrien, "the Palace Baths was popular with the gay crowd when I started going there in the 1940s. I had an affair with an actor there. He appeared in those fly-by-night cowboy movies that Hollywood put out in a week's time. When the actor's lover found out about our meetings, we ended our affair at the baths. In those days you always knew who was screwing who because there were few places in Los Angeles where men could meet for sex. When you went to the baths you saw the same faces year after year."
Another Angelino, Ira Hainer, who frequented KLYT throughout the his adult life recalled this tidbit, "I began going there in 1988. I couldn't believe how much action this place had to offer. When I didn't feel like cruising the triple-x movie houses on Main Street, I would go to the baths. In the good old days sex would be everywhere, in the steam room, hot room, hallways, everywhere. Threesomes, foursomes, moresomes were not uncommon, even in the tiny rooms that are provided, which are no bigger than a what was needed to fit a small bed. I have seen some of the hottest Latino men at this place. I used to hear the sad stories of their frigid wives who wouldn't service them when they wanted relief. Their home life wasn't important, though. All that was important is that they wanted to be serviced, and I was glad to do it."
Throughout the 1950s and the 1960s a large assortment of "steam bath" venues operated in Los Angeles. Although not advertised as gay, many of these bathhouses were favorite meeting spots for homosexuals. The list of bathhouses which operated during this period include the Pico Steam Baths ("where you could get a meal and a massage,") Brooks Baths, Ericson's Swedish Baths, the First Street Bathhouse ("now a police station, but once very popular with the gays,") and the Gemini Baths on Fountain Avenue. In the early 1970s many gay entrepreneurs opened their own bathhouses, many of which were private clubs, meaning that yearly memberships were sold by club owners. The list of bathhouses which operated as "openly" gay venues in Los Angeles during this time included such places as the Club Baths of Los Angeles, The Hollywood Spa, the legendary 8709 Bathhouse, Mac's Baths, Hyperion Health Works, The American Continental Baths, The Corral Club, Club Wellington Baths, The Silver Saddle Spa, PT 1202, Glen's Baths ("where you went to meet young Mexicans,") and the Serpent 8 Club.
The 1970s were a sexually progressive decade that produced the very first gay bathhouse chain in America (the Club Baths Chain) that had numerous locations from Honolulu to Miami. Now only a misty memory, the Club Baths set the stage for other gay-owned and operated businesses to spring up across the country, including many bars and bathhouses which, for the first time in history, openly advertised as gay establishments. The largest gay bathhouse chain in America today is the Midtowne Spa Chain, which has locations in California, Texas and Milwaukee. The brains and inspiration behind the Midtowne legacy was an entrepreneur named Marty Benson. In the early 1970s Marty opened the Melrose Spa in Hollywood (formerly Lion Heart Baths) and the multi-level Midtowne Spa on Kohler Street in Los Angeles. Having witnessed decades of harassment by the police and the homophobic public, Marty wanted to provide safe and playful environments for the gay men of Los Angeles to meet for sex. Prior to the 1970s the bathhouses and saunas which "tolerated" gay patronage were mostly owned and operated by heterosexuals who often "frowned upon" or treated gay customers rudely. Marty Benson, however, understood the needs of gays in the emerging era of gay liberation, and he responded by hiring gay bathhouse attendants with the intent that they would treat customers with the respect they deserved. As a result, Marty's bathhouses gained steady patronage and a reputation as a fun place to cruise. One factor that played an important role in the success of the Midtowne Chain was that Marty's policy was to serve customers, no matter what their ethnicity, age or weight. During the 1970s many gay bathhouses in Los Angeles discriminated against chubby or older men. Many Angelinos were turned down entry to the baths because they were overweight, some by only a few pounds.
Ralph M. from Hollywood remembered being told to lift his shirt by a young bathhouse attendant working the front desk at Mac's Baths on Hyperion. When the attendant determined that Ralph was too chubby, he was rudely told that the bathhouse was too full and told to go elsewhere. "I wasn't even very big at the time," Ralph recalled, "I just had a slight belly, yet I was told to get lost, plus they confiscated my membership card on the spot!"
The stories of other men who were denied entry to the baths in the 1970s and early 1980s were similar. Some men were asked to produce three or four pieces of identification, while others were flat-out told that they were too fat or too old to enter. "In those days," said David from Los Angeles, "there was definitely body attitude in the Los Angeles gay bathhouse scene. Men were denied entry to the spas if they didn't look like body builders or were too old (over 35 usually). Several baths turned me down because I looked too old, but I was only 28 at the time. Some young jock behind the counter would say, 'We've got mostly a young crowd here; you wouldn't like it!" Interestingly, Marty Benson saw the plight of chubby and older men, and he responded by placing ads in gay rags that spread the welcoming message, "If you're warm and breathing, you're our kind of people!' As a result, more people flocked to Marty's bathhouses, making the Midtowne Spa Chain one of the most popular gay baths in the country. As the 70s evolved into the 80's and beyond, the Midtowne Spas has survived to witness the demise of other baths, including those that discriminated based on weight, age and looks.
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Why is Lomi Lomi the best?
Swedish is the basis of all massage-which is the basic massage that all therapists are taught. It is the first step to massage. Basically you have been getting a basic massage. It is the first step of many modalities.
Now to explain Lomi Lomi to you. Have you ever tie dyed a shirt. Twist it up tight and dip it in the dye. Not all of the dye penetrates the fabric. Same concept with the muscles. Muscle tension blocks energy flow. Lomi Lomi, Esalen, Tandem release these blockages. So you get the massage drunk without the massage hangover.
Now Lomi Lomi is not just about the physical it is about the emotional. Everything is connected. When we are sad we ache physically all because our emotions make us ache.
We feel our emotions and did you know it is believed that 80% of all intial dr visits are caused by our emotional turmoil. It is also believed that 85% of diseases are directly affected by our emotional status, sadness, stress, overwhelming feelings. Illness is a state of tension.
I hear constantly that clients minds are always racing they never seem to feel peace never feel whole or complete. Like something is missing. I honestly think as a society we are disconnected and imbalanced. There is no harmony in life or interally.
I am not saying the Lomi Lomi or any other massage will bring this to you. But I am sure it is part of the puzzle that will help it along. Reconnecting and balancing is up to you. It is a whole life event with water intake, good food source which includes lots of fruits and vegtables, exercise, sleep all of these things come into play.
Because the practitioner works intuitively, a massage may be slow and very relaxing or at times it may be a little faster and therefore more invigorating and enlivening to the body. Sometimes the recipient may experience an emotional release as the massage can release and shift negative emotions, negative beliefs and other "stuff" that has been stored in the cells of the body, with the healing effects of the massage continuing long after the massage is over.
The massage can be done by one person or by two or more people working together. Having two people massaging tends to send to recipient into an even deeper level of relaxation as you really can"t focus on four hands doing different things - it really is a blissful and fairly mindblowing experience
Is Lomi Lomi Sensual?
Touch is a very basic human need. Skin hunger is as real as stomach hunger, yet it is so restricted by our society and equated with sex, that we have lost the ability to nurture through touch.
Most of us have be taught to express intimacy only in sexual relationships. But intimacy doesn't necessarily include sex, any more than sex necessarily involves intimacy.
Our bodies were designed for sensual enjoyment through touch but we often confuse wonderful sensual feelings with sexual acts.
Lomi Lomi breaks the barriers to touch and allows a new awareness of feeling, caring, pleasure that our bodies were meant to express to one another.
Please remember this does not mean any extra activites will occur. Therapists do not massage the genital area during Lomi Lomi Massages
Sunday, January 23, 2011
What is involved in a Reiki session?
Reiki is deeply relaxing and creates a sense of well-being, which can increase the rate of recovery. The sensation felt by a recipient of Reiki is usually a deep feeling of warmth or cool and comfort. Many clients explain a sensation of "floating" or of feeling very light with a deep sense of euphoria and peace.
In your Reiki session you will be asked to lie down or to sit comfortably, whichever you prefer. You remain clothed except for special problems. As the practitioner, he will lay my hands on different areas of your body (see below). If you wish not to be touched he can leave his hands 1-3 inches above your body. This does not effect the healing process in any way.
Most Reiki masseurs do not use the traditionally taught hand positions very much, they "directly" know what to do and where to go. The main areas of focus consist of the top of the head (crown), the forehead, the throat, the heart, the solar plexis/spleen, the sacral (stomach area) and the base (pelvis). Other areas of focus include the jaw, the shoulders, the hips, the knees, the ankles, the feet and the back. Depending on your wishes and the masseur's intuition more may be added, such as the arms, hands or kidneys if necessary. Even though certain "areas" are touched during a Reiki session, one of the amazing things is that the Reiki knows EXACTLY where it needs to go. It seeks out to heal the CAUSE of an illness not just the symptoms.
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Wednesday, January 19, 2011
The Art Of M4M Touch
The human body has a tremendous capacity to experience pleasure through its 5 senses: sight, sound, smell, taste and above all touch.
Touch is said to be food for our Souls, and the tactile experience is essential for the development of a happy and fulfilled human being. In fact, a huge part of our brain is dedicated to the sensory and tactile department. Lack of touch hardens us and makes us tense.
Touch is the primary sense we develop. For a newborn baby, touch is the first point of contact with a strange new world and the mother’s skin is where it finds warmth and comfort. It is through being touched with love that we establish our self-esteem and appreciation of our own bodies. These attitudes, developed early in our lives, play a large part in creating fulfilling love relationships. Also, later in our lives, we can discover the profound effects that the loving touch continues to have on all levels of our being. It touches us on the deepest level and relaxes us both physically and emotionally.
In the esoteric yogic tradition it is known that the Heart Chakra is connected to the sense of touch. This means that we can awaken our hearts simply by touching and being touched. Some of the superior human qualities like unconditional love, compassion and empathy will almost automatically become more present in our beings through practicing tantric massage. We are, of course, not talking about a superficial back rub, but the full experience where the entire body is included in the massage and covered with loving touches full of awareness. Including the entire body in the experience will not only create a very healing experience for both body and soul, but also awaken and open the heart chakra completely in a very conscious way.
If both lovers during the massage are completely open and relaxed their auras will blend exactly like when making love; thus we can call a tantric massage “Lovemaking at the level of the Soul”.
Loving touch within the tantric massage enriches the sensual and emotional aspects of our love relationships, and brings us a new and deeper level of intimacy, while we are helping each other relax and explore the realms of sensuality and eroticism.
The tantric massage is a deeply relaxing, rejuvenating and healing experience that awakens sensitivity and energy, increases the capacity to experience pleasure and creates a deep intimacy and closeness between the lovers that will reflect in all aspects of their relationship.
Women are generally more in “touch” with their overall sensuality than men and love to be shown through touch that they are appreciated in ways other than just their sensuality. Men tend to be more sexually focused in a physical relationship, but once they discover the delights of full body sensuality, they are converted.
Tantric massage is something worth studying but most of all practicing. More important than the techniques is the attitude and the loving attentiveness behind the touch.
Touch is said to be food for our Souls, and the tactile experience is essential for the development of a happy and fulfilled human being. In fact, a huge part of our brain is dedicated to the sensory and tactile department. Lack of touch hardens us and makes us tense.
Touch is the primary sense we develop. For a newborn baby, touch is the first point of contact with a strange new world and the mother’s skin is where it finds warmth and comfort. It is through being touched with love that we establish our self-esteem and appreciation of our own bodies. These attitudes, developed early in our lives, play a large part in creating fulfilling love relationships. Also, later in our lives, we can discover the profound effects that the loving touch continues to have on all levels of our being. It touches us on the deepest level and relaxes us both physically and emotionally.
In the esoteric yogic tradition it is known that the Heart Chakra is connected to the sense of touch. This means that we can awaken our hearts simply by touching and being touched. Some of the superior human qualities like unconditional love, compassion and empathy will almost automatically become more present in our beings through practicing tantric massage. We are, of course, not talking about a superficial back rub, but the full experience where the entire body is included in the massage and covered with loving touches full of awareness. Including the entire body in the experience will not only create a very healing experience for both body and soul, but also awaken and open the heart chakra completely in a very conscious way.
If both lovers during the massage are completely open and relaxed their auras will blend exactly like when making love; thus we can call a tantric massage “Lovemaking at the level of the Soul”.
Loving touch within the tantric massage enriches the sensual and emotional aspects of our love relationships, and brings us a new and deeper level of intimacy, while we are helping each other relax and explore the realms of sensuality and eroticism.
The tantric massage is a deeply relaxing, rejuvenating and healing experience that awakens sensitivity and energy, increases the capacity to experience pleasure and creates a deep intimacy and closeness between the lovers that will reflect in all aspects of their relationship.
Women are generally more in “touch” with their overall sensuality than men and love to be shown through touch that they are appreciated in ways other than just their sensuality. Men tend to be more sexually focused in a physical relationship, but once they discover the delights of full body sensuality, they are converted.
Tantric massage is something worth studying but most of all practicing. More important than the techniques is the attitude and the loving attentiveness behind the touch.
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Masseurs Compete for Client Services
GMN has unveiled its posting section where massage enthusiasts can post a massage request in their city. Masseurs are encouraged to view the postings daily and contact any potential clients directly. This is just one of many ways GMN has made it easy for masseurs and clients to connect - the most than any directory.
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Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Masseurs Catching Up to Escort Business
With the turn of the economy, the increasing number of masseur directories (eg. gaymassagenow.com), popularity of hybrid massages, like body scrubs and tantric therapeutic bodywork, and manscaping rituals, masseurs have quietly crept up to escorts in yearly revenue.
In 2010, freelance m4m escort revenue averaged $26,300 whereas masseurs averaged $19,640. A sharp increase from 5 years ago where the differential was, at the time, over 60%. It now stands at a mere 35%. The top 1% of masseurs and escorts brought home $62k and $91k respectively.
2011 has promised to provide more revenue to both fields as the economy recovers and the middle-class begin to open their wallets to such luxuries like massage and companionship. By 2015, it is projected that masseurs and escorts will earn the same as an increasing number of professionals are combining both fields and providing spa servies, packages and hybrid experiences.
Top demanded massage styles in 2010:
1) Sensual/Swedish hybrid
2) Erotic
3) Deep Tissue/Sensual hybrid
4) Swedish/Deep Tissue hybrid
Top demanded spa services in 2010:
1) Body grooming - shave
2) Body grooming - wax
3) Body scrub
4) Facial
In 2010, freelance m4m escort revenue averaged $26,300 whereas masseurs averaged $19,640. A sharp increase from 5 years ago where the differential was, at the time, over 60%. It now stands at a mere 35%. The top 1% of masseurs and escorts brought home $62k and $91k respectively.
2011 has promised to provide more revenue to both fields as the economy recovers and the middle-class begin to open their wallets to such luxuries like massage and companionship. By 2015, it is projected that masseurs and escorts will earn the same as an increasing number of professionals are combining both fields and providing spa servies, packages and hybrid experiences.
Top demanded massage styles in 2010:
1) Sensual/Swedish hybrid
2) Erotic
3) Deep Tissue/Sensual hybrid
4) Swedish/Deep Tissue hybrid
Top demanded spa services in 2010:
1) Body grooming - shave
2) Body grooming - wax
3) Body scrub
4) Facial
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Tuesday, January 11, 2011
How Erotic Touch Can Turn Up the Heat in Your Bedroom
It’s no secret that when it comes to turning up some serious heat in the bedroom, nothing is more effective, or pleasurable, than erotic touching.
After all, the right touch or caress can arouse both you and your partner for some exciting foreplay, bring you to the brink of nirvana over and over again and even rev you up for a second bed-shattering round.
It seems like there’s nothing that erotic touching can’t do for a healthy sexual relationship!
After all, the right touch or caress can arouse both you and your partner for some exciting foreplay, bring you to the brink of nirvana over and over again and even rev you up for a second bed-shattering round.
It seems like there’s nothing that erotic touching can’t do for a healthy sexual relationship!
The Benefits of Erotic Touch
Yet the blissful benefits of erotic touch doesn’t have to be limited to your between-the-sheets playtime; in fact, erotic touch can do wonders for your relationship outside of the bedroom – and even boost your mental, physical and emotional health!
Here’s the latest scoop on how erotic touch can be used to boost your individual health and well-being and max out your pleasure!
Incorporate Sensual Touch Into Your Relationship
While we may all enjoy a good back and shoulder rub from time to time, erotic massageis in no way similar to the typical massage. Massages are often used to release tension and relax knotted muscles. While this may be a pleasurable bonus to erotic massage, this should not be the ultimate goal.
Erotic massage is a slow and sensual activity that involves a great deal of intimacy and nudity. If you’re usually uncomfortable with prolonged nude activity,perhaps you’re too self-conscious of your own body or what your lover thinks of your sack skills, then take the time to set the proper mood.
Set the Mood
Light a few candles, play some sensual music or even swap your normal bed sheets for something light and silky. If you really want to turn the heat up during the massage, use massage oils in rich sensual scents, like sandalwood or jasmine.
When beginning your erotic massage experience, remember to communicate with your partner at all times. Remember to stare into each other’s eyes as you exchange gentle kisses and soft caresses.
This connection will not only make your partner feel more aroused and heighten his or her sexual desire during the erotic massage, it will reassure your lover of the strength and importance of your emotional commitment. This reassurance plays a vital role in the overall emotional healing of your lover.
Performing the Erotic Massage
When performing the erotic massage, remember to keep your hands on your partner at all times. Use soft yet rhythmic strokes as you slowly vary between gentle and deep touches (remember to ask your partner the type of touch that he or she prefers). While performing the massage, lightly brush your partner’s body with your genitals and/or breasts, as this will prolong your partner’s desire by keeping them in a sexually aroused state.
Continue with the massage until you feel that your partner is ready to move on to intercourse. Remember, erotic massage doesn’t necessarily have to lead to sex, and it only should when your partner invites it.
Yet the blissful benefits of erotic touch doesn’t have to be limited to your between-the-sheets playtime; in fact, erotic touch can do wonders for your relationship outside of the bedroom – and even boost your mental, physical and emotional health!
Here’s the latest scoop on how erotic touch can be used to boost your individual health and well-being and max out your pleasure!
Hardwired to be Touched
Humans are hardwired to be touched. Even during our modern age of hectic schedules and impossibly long work hours, there’s nothing more satisfying or soothing than thecaress of a lover at the end of a busy day.
Even platonic touching can go a long way towards boosting our moods; remember all those times when a comforting hug or a reassuring pat from a friend made you feel a million times better than before? Well, there’s a biological reason for that response.
Long before humans developed language we relied on touch in order to communicate or express feelings of joy, sorrow, pain or love. Touching is an ingrained part of how we socialize with others. In fact, scientific studies have shown that the more healthy touching that an adolescent or child is exposed to, the more likely he or she will develop into a well-rounded adult.
Touching also plays a vital role in our emotional development as well and not just when we’re children. Studies have shown that adults who are regularly exposed to touch, say the comforting hug of a friend or the soothing caress of a lover, often report themselves as being happier and more content than those people who are touched less.
So it’s easy to see how touching can not only spice up your sex life, it can also emotionally heal you and your partner as well.
So if you’re wondering how you can incorporate more of the blissful benefits of sensual touch into your relationship, here’s the scoop on how to soothe and emotionally heal your partner though erotic massage and bring him or her to the brink of pleasure again and again!
Humans are hardwired to be touched. Even during our modern age of hectic schedules and impossibly long work hours, there’s nothing more satisfying or soothing than thecaress of a lover at the end of a busy day.
Even platonic touching can go a long way towards boosting our moods; remember all those times when a comforting hug or a reassuring pat from a friend made you feel a million times better than before? Well, there’s a biological reason for that response.
Long before humans developed language we relied on touch in order to communicate or express feelings of joy, sorrow, pain or love. Touching is an ingrained part of how we socialize with others. In fact, scientific studies have shown that the more healthy touching that an adolescent or child is exposed to, the more likely he or she will develop into a well-rounded adult.
Touching also plays a vital role in our emotional development as well and not just when we’re children. Studies have shown that adults who are regularly exposed to touch, say the comforting hug of a friend or the soothing caress of a lover, often report themselves as being happier and more content than those people who are touched less.
So it’s easy to see how touching can not only spice up your sex life, it can also emotionally heal you and your partner as well.
So if you’re wondering how you can incorporate more of the blissful benefits of sensual touch into your relationship, here’s the scoop on how to soothe and emotionally heal your partner though erotic massage and bring him or her to the brink of pleasure again and again!
Incorporate Sensual Touch Into Your Relationship
While we may all enjoy a good back and shoulder rub from time to time, erotic massageis in no way similar to the typical massage. Massages are often used to release tension and relax knotted muscles. While this may be a pleasurable bonus to erotic massage, this should not be the ultimate goal.
Erotic massage is a slow and sensual activity that involves a great deal of intimacy and nudity. If you’re usually uncomfortable with prolonged nude activity,perhaps you’re too self-conscious of your own body or what your lover thinks of your sack skills, then take the time to set the proper mood.
Set the Mood
Light a few candles, play some sensual music or even swap your normal bed sheets for something light and silky. If you really want to turn the heat up during the massage, use massage oils in rich sensual scents, like sandalwood or jasmine.
When beginning your erotic massage experience, remember to communicate with your partner at all times. Remember to stare into each other’s eyes as you exchange gentle kisses and soft caresses.
This connection will not only make your partner feel more aroused and heighten his or her sexual desire during the erotic massage, it will reassure your lover of the strength and importance of your emotional commitment. This reassurance plays a vital role in the overall emotional healing of your lover.
Performing the Erotic Massage
When performing the erotic massage, remember to keep your hands on your partner at all times. Use soft yet rhythmic strokes as you slowly vary between gentle and deep touches (remember to ask your partner the type of touch that he or she prefers). While performing the massage, lightly brush your partner’s body with your genitals and/or breasts, as this will prolong your partner’s desire by keeping them in a sexually aroused state.
Continue with the massage until you feel that your partner is ready to move on to intercourse. Remember, erotic massage doesn’t necessarily have to lead to sex, and it only should when your partner invites it.
Make erotic massage an important bedroom ritual and feel the amazing benefits of sensual touching in your relationship!
- M. Silverman
Saturday, January 8, 2011
M4M Matchmaking Experts
GayMassageNow.com introduced its Massage Matchmakers service last month where you get matched to your right masseur. Need more than a massage? Maybe a long term relationship or casual encounter?
We highly recommend Gayquation.com - the leading m4m matchmaking experts. No robots or personals. You get assigned a real matchmaker who searches for your matches from scratch each and every time. Get matched to up to 6 men per month. They don't stop matching you until you them to stop. From LTRs to networking opportunities they match you for any kind of relationship you seek.
Why not let them do all the work! Maybe next week you'll get a date with a great guy followed by a sensual massage. ;) Maybe even love is around the corner.
Here is their website again: www.gayquation.com
We highly recommend Gayquation.com - the leading m4m matchmaking experts. No robots or personals. You get assigned a real matchmaker who searches for your matches from scratch each and every time. Get matched to up to 6 men per month. They don't stop matching you until you them to stop. From LTRs to networking opportunities they match you for any kind of relationship you seek.
Why not let them do all the work! Maybe next week you'll get a date with a great guy followed by a sensual massage. ;) Maybe even love is around the corner.
Here is their website again: www.gayquation.com
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Wednesday, January 5, 2011
The Tantric Touch And Your Prostate
What is Tantra?
Tantra Massage is the combination of the loving touch that gently soothes the body and senses while at the same time stimulating the spiritual life force that we know of as sexual energy into awakening. The entire experience is essentially a ritual that celebrates the whole being that you are, and encourages you to completely relax into a state of receiving conscious touch and pleasure.
Red Tantra Massage
Red Tantra massage adds energy healing and tantric coaching to the ecstasy of receiving a nurturing and awakening sensual massage. It creates an environment in which you can release stress and feel more alive in your body while staying fully present to your sexual energy.
The goal of this massage is to bring the body and mind into a balanced and harmonious state. The benefits are many: including deep relaxation, heightened sexual response and better health. The process builds trust and intimacy between partners, and is easy to do.
RED TANTRA: is the aspect of Tantra that relates to mastery of sexual skills. It is for those who would like to search deep inside themselves and learn The Intimacy and The Spirituality
What does it feel like?
The Tantric massage will make you feel as if you are in a trance, where physical boundaries dissolve, time disappears, worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten altogether. Both for men and women this is an amazing once in a life experience.
Each Tantra massage is at least 1.5 hours long, and is designed to nurture, awaken the body, and help you grow. Learning to awaken and channel your own tantric energies opens your body fully and joyfully to ecstasy. Balancing the body�s energy field through tantric practice connects you to your pleasure and helps you embrace a blissful and joyful life. Red Tantra Massages are done partially or fully nude, depending on your comfort level.
Perceptions of sensuality and lust are located here, but these "intimate" areas are an important source of joy in life. You will feel relaxed, yet wide awake. You will be coached to breathe properly, as you sink into yet deeper level of relaxation. In this very loving ceremony you will be completely nurtured and pampered in the arms of your goddess, giving you a feeling of comfort and sense of well-being.
By surrendering action, many new experiences and states of consciousness are available which promote more self confidence, increase your energy and capacity for pleasure, and deep inner peace. We will begin by having you recline on your back with pillows under your head and a towel covered pillow supporting your hips. Your legs will be slightly apart, your knees just a little bent.
Your abdomen, thighs, feet, toes, chest, nipples and fingers are then gently massaged with warm aromatic oil. Nothing will escape attention. Your energy flow is stimulated and senses awakened as your body's sensitivity increases. According to Tantric ideals, your entire body will be massaged, including those particularly sensitive areas such as the Lingam or Yoni.
The Sacret Spot (Prostate) Massage
The Sacret Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Find and massage the male Sacret Spot (prostate). He will feel the pressure deep inside and it may be uncomfortable at first. Eventually, as this area is worked on and softened, he will be able to expand his orgasms. Coupled with stimulation of his Lingam, massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing to the man.
The benefits
The Sacret Spot Massage is a healthy and pleasurable activity that can be enjoyed as part of your intimate life, massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical stress.
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Acupressure Points For Male Infertility
The general perception of infertility is a couple endeavoring their first pregnancy and failing, after one year of unprotected sex. 80 to 85 percent of couples succeed in within the first year and those that do not are suspect for infertility. According to statistics, the cause lies roughly with the male in 50 percent of cases of infertility.
The problem is often identified with the quality and quantity of the sperm, and total male reproductive health. According to researchers, since the 30s, the sperm count in men has fallen by almost 50 percent. Possible causes are due to changing diet, environment and lifestyle. Naturopathic treatment attempts to address this problem and focuses on improvement of this aspect.
Acupressure is an ancient traditional Chinese medicine technique which is a combination of acupuncture and pressure application. Acupressure works on the application of pressure, using hands, elbows or other devices on various pressure points or meridians in the body. The points may be far distant from the area of the targeted symptom in the body.
In acupressure treatment for infertility, both couples are initially checked for anatomical problems that are first addressed. In acupressure therapy, certain spots are identified by organ and number.
In treating male infertility, specific point in the hands and feet are targeted. The following points are especially significant:
- The genitourinary tract is influenced and circulation improved by attention to bladder points.
- Circulation in the reproductive organs and urinary tract are connected to kidney 3.
- Circulation in the reproductive organs and urinary tract are connected to kidney 3.
- Blood is purified and strengthened through Spleen 6 and Liver 3.
Studies have indicated that sperm count and sperm motility improved in 67 percent males after acupuncture treatment.
Studies have indicated that sperm count and sperm motility improved in 67 percent males after acupuncture treatment.
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