What is an Exotic Massage? Different than Erotic?

Exotic massage has recently come to encompass a wide range of services from sea-salt scrubs and eastern massages with exotic oils. The most type of exotic massage, however, is a sensual experience you and your lover can experience together to heighten the pleasure of your love making.

Exotic massages are meant to ease away the cares of life and relax your body and mind so you can enjoy new horizons of sexual and emotional pleasure. These types of techniques go way back to the ancient Eastern traditions of tantra and Taoism, which is to please and arouse the giver and the receiver equally.

How good the sensual experience comes down to how you set the mood. Utilizes and experiencing all of your senses will make the journey much more fun and enjoyable. Common techniques used are breathing, touching, using your hair, fabrics, stroking, and massage oils.

Here are five tips to create the perfect atmosphere.
1. Turn off your phones and make sure there are no other disturbances.

2. Play, soft, relaxing music to have something pleasant to listen to.

3. Turn off the lights and light plenty of candles to set the mood.

4. Burn incense or use essential oils for the introduction of pleasurable smells.

5. Introduce fruit, cheese, and/or wine to also use pleasurable tastes.

Once the mood is right, you need to focus on caressing your partner's body with an enjoyable massage. Techniques you should consider using are Swedish, deep tissue, reiki, acupuncture, Rolfing, and craniosacral techniques.

How To Give A Hot Butt Massage

Learn about how to give a hot butt massage when you want to do more than entice him. When giving a massage, the butt is often the one part of the body given the least amount of attention. You may be focused on giving him a sensual and arousing massage to put him in the mood for some sexual fun. What you do not realize is that a hot butt massage is very stimulating and erotic. The moment you grab him butt in your hands, she will begin to ooh and ah with pleasure. When you realize the response you get from giving him a hot butt massage, you will never neglect to give him butt a massage again.

1. Prepare a relaxing and tantalizing environment. Have the lights down low or use scented or unscented candles. You will want the setting to be the same as if you are giving him a full hot body massage. Have soft music playing a towel on the bed with a few rose pedals on the bed.

2. Hot massage oil. Thime is warm massage oil that gets hotter the more you rub or blow on it. Of course, you can always get a bottle of baby oil and heat it up. That will work nicely for the hot butt massage.

3. Trim nails and smooth away rough skin. Do not give him a hot butt massage with long nails. Trim your nails so you want poke or scratch him. The ooh and ahs you will hear want be from pleasure and not pain, so take care of those claws. If your hands are very rough and calloused over, you might want to use moisturize your hands before the massage.

4. Exercise your hands. This may sound strange, but you can get a pain in your fingers, hands or wrist from massaging him butt. Extended use of hands can get a little painful. To prevent a cramp in your hands open and close your hands and pop your knuckles. You should now be ready for a lot of squeezing and teasing.

5. Get him in the mood. Run him a nice warm bath with bubbles all around. Lay him bath robe out so she will know to only to put that on when she is done. Put a glass of wine tub side to help loosen him up and relaxed for the hot butt massage you have in store for him.

6. Undress him. Lead him to the bedroom. Make sure the temperature in the room is just right. You do n ot want him to get goose bumps on him butt. Tell him to lie on him stomach whime you will proceed to remove him robe. To let him know exactly what you are about to do put a towel over him top half and just leave him butt exposed. This will also help to keep any chill off and him mind only on the intense butt massage you will give him.

7. Start massage off slow. Do not pour the hot massage oil directly on him naked butt. You may receive a negative response since she was not expecting that. Instead, pour a bit in your hands and rub your hands togethim just incase your hands or a little cold. Put a hand on each butt cheek, spread your fingers out and start caressing him butt very slowly. Pick up the tempo as she starts to really get into the butt massage. A little light tap on him rear end every once in a while will get him heated up even more. Now she might be ready to move on to something more exciting!

Sensual Massage Oils Do Help Arrousal

Massage oils make a difference believe it or not in the boudoire. Make a quick trip to a chain store like The Body Shop and pick up a sensual massage oil. For example, at the Body Shop you can make time for an intimate body massage with kiss-safe Sensual Massage Oil, inspired by the art of “Lomi Lomi”, an ancient Hawaiian massage ritual based on the philosophy of love and sharing. The name, meaning “Loving Hands”, is associated with a cat clawing at a surface rhythmically. Practioners use their forearms and hands to work deeply, yet gently into the muscles with continuous flowing strokes, totally nurturing the body and enabling the recipient to relax and let go as blocked energy is released.

Best if you want to:

Connect more intimately with your partner as you indulge in a sensual and stimulating oil blend containing ylang ylang, kukui oil and vanilla.

Ingredients:

Marula Oil
Naturally rich in antioxidants and essential fatty acids, marula oil from Namibia makes our lip colors glide on and gives our face and eye powders a smooth, hydrating finish while changing thousands of women’s lives. Learn More

Organic olive oil from Italy
Is a natural moisturizer for normal to dry skin. It also helps condition hair, and give it a silky shine. Our olive oil is organic, and comes from our Community Trade partners in southern Italy.

Ylang ylang essential oil from the Comoros Islands off the East Coast of Africa
Has an exotically sensual, sweet and slightly spicy, soft floral scent.

Sunflower Seed Oil
Moisturizes and helps to soften the skin.

How it works:

- Community Trade organic soy oil is rich in essential fatty acids to repair the skin’s moisture barrier, restoring smoothness and suppleness.
- Community Trade marula oil and Community Trade organic olive oil moisturize, condition and soften skin.
- A blend of essential oils including Polynesian ylang ylang, kukui and Tahitian vanilla are known for their aphrodisiac properties and their sweet sensual fragrance as they help soothe the skin.

Need an edge? Pick up a sensual massage oil and see if it might work for you and enhance you and your partner's or client's arousal meter. Trust us, it won't hurt.

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