My Massage Story Series #3: Backache

I had been playing tennis for several years without any 'side effects', but about six months ago I started getting pains in my back after half-an-hour or so of playing. My playing partner suggested I go to this sports masseur he knew, who was supposedly fantastic. I made an appointment and the following Friday at 10 am precisely I turned up at his massage parlour. It was the first time I'd had any sort of massage, so I didn't know what to expect. His name was Charles and he was a well-built man in his late thirties or early forties and he started by asking me the usual things like how long had I been playing tennis, when did the pains start to appear, could I associate them with an particular physical movement, and so on. The he asked me to strip off down to my boxer shorts and lie face downwards on the bed. His placed his hands either side of my spine below my neck and, using three fingers of each hand to press gently into my flesh, gradually worked his way downwards. Then he reversed the process, returning to my neck.

"Yes, I can feel the tension. You have nothing physically wrong here, but you are too tense."

"Yes, I suppose I am a tense sort of person -- I tend to get het up over little things, particularly at work."

"What do you do to wind down?"

"Play tennis."

"Anything else?"

"I read a bit, watch TV, listen to music..."

"What about your sex life?"

"My sex life? Gosh, not much going there at the moment. I'm what you might call 'between girlfriends'."

"So when was the last time you had an orgasm?"

"Do I have to tell you?"

"No, but if it was more than a week ago, it may explain the tension. Do you mind if I ask whether you masturbate?"

"Gosh, I do mind a bit -- well, OK -- yes I do occasionally, but I'm trying to stop -- after all, I'm not a teenager any more..."

"No but you're a normal healthy male, and normal healthy males need regular sexual relief. I masturbate two or three times a week, as well as making love to my wife."

Should I tell him that I did to -- but without the wife bit? Perhaps not. But all this talk about masturbation was turning me on. My prick was swelling and pressing painfully into the rather hard bed.

"Right, turn over, please."

"Oh, really?"

"Yes, really. I need to loosen you up completely..."

I turned over -- which immediately relieved the pain of the imprisoned erection, but the boxer shorts did nothing to conceal it from Charles' gaze. My prick leapt to attention, raising the leg of my shorts embarrassingly high.

"Um, er, sorry about that..."

"About what? At least you don't have any problems there..."

And his warm hand, pleasantly greasy with massage oil, slipped into the right leg of my boxer shorts and gently touched my erect prick.

"I think these had better come off, hadn't they..."

And he pulled my shorts down over my legs, causing my prick to slap upwards againt my stomach.

"Well, there's no point in continuing with the rest of your body until we've solved this, is there?"

And he poured a little more massage oil onto the palm of his right hand, rubbed it in with his left and enfolded the smooth right palm around my hungry prick. Should I protest? No, of course not. I just closed my eyes, lay back and enjoyed it. After all, he did it so much better than I did. I usually found it rather difficult to be gentle with myself. I tended to just rub furiously until I came, to get the shame of being a wanker over as soon as possible. Occasionally I took a little longer over a soapy hands job in the bath, but it had never been anything like this. As soon as he could feel I was on the verge of orgasm he slowed down and then took his hand away. I had at least three mini-orgasms before he decided that the right moment had arrived, and then with a few final movements he almost eased the sperm out of my prick. I had never experienced such a long orgasm and I don't think I'd ever shot so much sperm. The final spurt went straight into my face and onto my lips. I licked it off and never before had my sperm tasted to sweet. This man was a marvel.

I opened my eyes, and saw just how much of a marvel he was. Right in front of my eyes was the largest and most perfectly formed erection I've ever seen. Well, since my schoolboy days in the shower and the occasional pornographic film I hadn't seen all that many erections -- but this was like something by Michaelangelo. My right hand came up immediately to take hold of it. So warm. So smooth. Throbbing. It smelt of love and massage oil. It tasted of love and of massage oil. I didn't take it into my mouth, it entered of its own accord.

"Just keep still -- relax!"

I just kept still and relaxed as Charles gently pushed his prick into my mouth as far as it would comfortably go and then withdrew it again, almost to the tip. He did this slowly at first and then the tempo quickened. His precum was like nectar. Suddenly I felt a slight twitch, a surge shot through the length of his shaft and suddenly my mouth was full of thick, soft sperm. Whenever I had lain on my back and thrown my legs over my shoulders so that I could come into my mouth, I'd always spat the sperm out. To spit this out would have been sacrilege. I savoured it on my tongue for a while and then swallowed it, drop by drop. I didn't notice that my prick had once again swelled up to its full size until I felt Charles' soft lips enclosing it. My second orgasm was not as prolific as the first, but it was every bit as heavenly.

Regular visits to Charles' massage parlour ensured I never had any back problems again.

by julianblake

My Massage Story Series #2: Parent's Friend

When I had just turned 19 I was still living with my parents when I sprained my knee in a skateboarding accident. My parents were leaving town for the weekend and usually I'd be forced to stay with a family member. My uncle had moved to town the year before, but was gone. So I was stuck with my parent's friend Chuck for the week. He was actually pretty cool, he was about 55, but he smoked pot and a few times would get me stoned. He had a really nice place. Even a pool and Jacuzzi. I didn't seem the first few nights, but on the third night I was there we went out and got some dinner then he asked if I wanted to hang out and watch a movie or something. Sounded good to me. Before we got home he bought some Jack Daniels and coca cola, my favorite drink.

So we get home and have some drinks, I was feeling pretty buzzed. Then Chuck asks if I wanted to see some photos of his exgirl friend. OF COURSE! I said.

So he pulls out there weird polaroids of this kind of trashy blonde girl with big tits, she's posing in the pics trying to look sexy. They were pretty good. I didn't realized Chuck was such a cool guy.

He then asked if I wanted to hop in the Jacuzzi to relax my knee, it could help, at this point I was pretty sloshed. So I went up to change into my bathing suit and when I got back down Chuck was already in the spa. We sat and talked a bunch, he told me about his ex, even relayed some pretty hot sex stories. We ran out of drinks and I offered to get some more from the Kitchen, but Chuck said to relax and he'd get it. When he got up I was SHOCKED to see he wasn't wearing any bathing suit, he was naked. Not only that I was even MORE SHOCKED to see it looked like he had a semi erection. It all happened quick so I tried to play it cool. He came back with the booze and hopped back in, we never talked about it.

After a little while we decided to go back in and watch some tv, I went to my room and got change, when I came back down Chuck was on the couch in a towel and there was a porn movie on. "you mind if we watch this?" He asked. I said sure. It was some kind of gang bang porn, I had seen porn before but nothing this graphic, lots of fucking, anal and a ton of facials.

We watched for awhile, I was still so drunk and found myself getting turned on by the porn. It was pretty intense. He asked how my knee was feeling, I told him the spa helped but it still hurt. He got up and disappeared into the other room for awhile. He then came back in and brought out a table. Here get on this he said.

"what is it?"

"It's a massage table," he told me.

"nah, I'm cool," I said.

Just get up here, you'll feel better I promise, he said.

Just strip down to your boxers. I turned around and tried to take off my clothes and angle my body so he couldn't see the front of my boxers since I had an erection.

I slowly got on the table with my back to him.

I turned my head towards the tv and kept my eyes on the porno that was on. He started rubbing the back of my knee, it felt great. He used a lot of oil and really got in there. I rested my eyes a bit and felt like maybe I even fell asleep for a second.

When I opened my eyes the porno filled my gaze and I saw that Chuck was no longer wearing the towel. His penis was fully erect and pointed right at me. The head was actually rubbing against my leg.

Okay, turn over. He said.

I was buzzed hard at this point and I knew I still had raging hard on and I was a alittle freaked out that he was naked.

I slowly turned over. Knowing that he was going to see my hard on.

"you like the movie, eh?" he asked.

"yeah, it's pretty good." I said straight faced.

"here let me stretch your leg out this will feel great." He then stood by my head and reached over and bent my right leg and pulled it towards him. As he did his hard cock was resting on my shoulder right next to my face.

He then moved down towards my leg and started rubbing my thigh again, I peeked down to see that my cock was sticking out of my boxers.

"look," he said, "those guys are going to cum on her face."

I turned my head to see about five black guys surrounding the girl and jerking off about to cum on her. As I watched he lubed up his hand and started jerking my cock.

"yep, there they go, they're going to cum," he said and acted like he wasn't stroking me.

I acted like it wasn't happening. "yeah, they sure are,' I stuttered back.

Out of the corner of my eye I could see he was jerking me with one hand and himself with another.

"they're cummming, he said as I felt a load of his cum shoot on my leg. It was super hot and his pace picked up and I felt myself about to cum.

I wiggled but he kept on and I unload a HUGE load all over my stomach.

Him and I never spoke about it again, but it always turns me on when I think back to it.

by youngartistguy

My Massage Story Series #1: Deep Tissue Massage

The following is a true account of an encounter I had during a recent ski trip.

In March of 2010, I decided to join a few friends on a ski trip in Vermont. It was going to be a weekend of skiing and drinking with many of my old friends from high school. However, on my flight out from the west coast, I ended up tweaking my lower back due to the long flight in the "spacious" seating that the airline provided me in coach. Having been an avid skier since a very young age I have to say I am in pretty good shape. That said, I am now in my mid 30s and therefore, I have a tendency to breakdown a little bit easier than I used to. By the time I reached our lodge after the flight and long drive up into the mountains, my back was an absolute disaster. Regardless, I was going to find a way to get on the mountain the next day as nothing was going to stop me from enjoying the fresh powder that had accumulated the week prior to our trip.

The next morning we hit the mountain early; however, my back was in even worse pain than the night before. Many of my friends cautioned me not to ski; however, I wasn't having it. I had already made my mind up that I was going to find a way to ski no matter what. As we were purchasing our lift tickets, I noticed a sign for a massage therapist located in the ski lodge of the mountain that we were skiing. I immediately decided this would be a great way to loosen up my back and get me onto the mountain. I informed my friends to go on without me and that I would get a quick massage and then head on up. We decided we would meet up for lunch at one of the lodge's midway up the mountain.

I grabbed my stuff and headed over to the massage therapists office. As I entered, I noticed a young man sitting at the front desk. He introduced himself as Mike and asked how he could help me. I explained to Mike my situation and that I was really adamant about skiing but was hoping that there was something that could be done to relieve some of my back pain. Mike was very courteous and apologized that their massage rooms were currently being used but that he could give me a quick 15 minute lower back treatment to help get me through the day. There was a massage table in the small lobby area and Mike said he would pull out a tri-fold screen to give us a little privacy from anyone walking by the front of the office which had a large window to the outside.

As I lay down onto the table Mike asked what I was wearing underneath my ski pants. I explained that I had on some long underwear and upon hearing this Mike said that I should take off my ski pants and powder jacket. He mentioned that it would be best if I was actually not wearing anything at all but since we did not have a private room he understood if I was more comfortable in my long underwear. I have to say that I had never been given a massage by another man and hearing Mike suggest that I take off my clothes was kind of a turn on. Although I am typically more inclined towards women, I had been with a few men in my past and it had been a while since my last encounter and the thought of this young, good looking guy massaging my naked body was starting to excite me. Trying to keep my composure, I slid off my pants and jacked and laid face down onto the table.

Mike slowly started to massage my lower back, working his hands and fists deep into my muscle tissue. He then pulled my shirt up to expose my lower back and asked if I minded him pulling my long underwear down a bit to expose my butt. I said it was fine and after he did this I could hear him applying oil to his hands. My excitement at this point was starting to grow and I could feel my cock begin to swell as Mike slowly applied baby oil to my lower back and upper ass area. Mike proceeded to give me an amazing lower back massage that also focused on my ass muscles. After what seemed like forever, he asked me to roll over so that he could massage my quads and do some leg bends. At this point my cock was semi hard and due to the fact that I have a pretty large cock, I knew that my excitement would be pretty obvious through my long underwear when I rolled over. I was pretty embarrassed but what the hell, I was probably never going to see this guy again anyway. I rolled over and sure enough my cock was pinned against my thigh and visibly outlined through my white underwear. Mike; however, did not say a thing and went ahead and started to massage up and down my legs, focusing on my quads and the inner thigh region, very close to where my cock was pinned against my thigh.

It was at this point that two women came out of the hallway and said goodbye to Mike. Mike gave a quick goodbye in reply and then stopped massaging my legs and asked if I wanted to go use one of the private rooms. Excited at the prospect of being completely alone and in private with him I said sure; although I was still pretty embarrassed that I may be getting aroused (and showing it) with a guy that did not share the same interests. Either way I was curious in exploring where this could go.

We entered the room and Mike asked if I was ok getting completely nude for the message. He mentioned there was a towel on the wall that I could use to cover myself and that being nude would allow him to use oil and give me a really deep massage. I of course said sure and as he went about getting ready I slipped off all of my clothes and then asked him if it mattered which towel I used (there was more than one hanging on the wall). As Mike glanced up to answer me, I caught him give a quick look at my cock which although it was no longer hard it was still pretty engorged and dangling freely between my legs. I knew that I had a pretty large cock and the quick reaction he had at seeing it alerted me to the fact that he probably liked what he saw. Mike instantly went back into professional mode and told me any towel was fine and so I grabbed the nearest one and wrapped it around my waist.

Mike had me lay down on my back and then pushed the towel away from my legs so that only my groin was covered. He then started in again on my thighs with the baby oil, massaging my quads and my inner thighs. It felt amazing and ever so slowly he started to work his way up my thighs towards my groin area. At this point my cock was back to half mast and was starting to push against the towel; however, my eyes were closed and I was just enjoying the pleasure that Mike was providing me. As he edged closer to my groin area, my cock, which was now fighting against the pressure of the towel, suddenly sprang free of the towel and slid up across my leg just as Mike's hand was moving up my thigh, literally brushing across the top of his hand. Mike continued to massage me as if nothing happened and I embarrassedly offered a quick apology.

Mike responded "Don't apologize. It's flattering to see that my techniques are making you feel so relaxed."

"Mmmm, I'm more than relaxed" I said "Your hands feel amazing."

At this point my cock was close to full mast; 9 inches of thick cock still fighting my towel in an effort to point straight up towards my stomach. Noticing this, and obviously not embarrassed about it, Mike quietly asked:

"I take it you won't mind if I get rid of this towel? You'd probably be a lot more comfortable."

"No, not at all...that would be nice." I barely whispered in response, closing my eyes and leaning my head back.

At this Mike slowly slid off the towel; allowing my huge penis to spring to its natural place of rest, pressed against my stomach; pre cum now dripping from my cock head into my belly button. Mike reached over to his bottle of oil and applied more to his hands and resumed massaging my inner thighs pushing gently up to my ball sack and slightly brushing against my balls and pubic area with both hands, with the tops of his hands brushing ever so lightly against the underside of my rock hard cock. I let out a moan of pleasure to let him know that I was thoroughly enjoying the attention he was now starting to show my cock. On his next pass up my thighs Mike decided to touch me slightly more, rubbing oil along my balls and gently caressing the tips of his fingers along my huge, thick shaft, tracing the line of my engorged vein on the underside of my penis.

"Fuck Mike, that feels so good." I whispered. "You're making me so horny."

Mike didn't response but instead, continued to tease my now aching cock, slowly touching it and slightly stroking it more and more. As he teased my cock he slowly had me slide down the massage table towards the end of the table so that my ass was near the edge. Mike had me bend my legs so that my feet were on the edge of the table just below my ass. He then started to massage the insides of my thighs and spread my legs out to expose my cock and ass to him. As he was doing this I suddenly shuddered with exhilaration as I felt what I quickly realized to be the head of his cock rubbing up the base of my cock. What I had not realized (due to my eyes being closed) is that Mike had quietly unzipped and removed his pants and was now completely nude himself from the waist down. I opened my eyes to see his huge hard cock rubbing along side of my own and was amazed to see that his dick was literally the same size as my own, in both length and girth. He had fully oiled himself up and our cocks were now sliding up and down against each other. I was so turned on that I reached up and pulled Mike to me; pressing his body against mine we began making out, our huge oiled up cocks grinding against each other as our tongues explored each other's mouths.

While we continued to kiss I suddenly felt Mike's fingers probing the underside of my ass. As his finger found my tight ass hole, my body quivered in anticipation. His finger slowly worked into my tight hole, the oil from the massage loosening me up. As we kissed I lifted my ass off the table to let him know that I was open to letting him enter me. I wanted this young stud and I wanted him to fuck me like I had never been fucked before.

As we continued to make out I felt Mike's huge, thick cock slide off of my own and slide down between my legs and start to rub against my exposed ass...the tip of his cock pressing against my now eager hole. I kissed him deeper, our tongues interlocked and probing deep within our mouths, my hands pulling is face into my own and as we kissed I slowly felt his huge penis enter into me; slowly pushing deeper into my tight ass. I grunted with a mix of pleasure and pain and pulled my face away from Mike so I could look him in the eyes as he fucked me like the young stud that he was. Our eyes locked and Mike started to push deeper into me and then slowly pulled out and then deeper still, until eventually all 9 inches of his glorious cock were thrusting in and out of my ass, my huge cock slapping against my belly as he fucked me. We were now sweating and grunting and I could sense my cock was going to burst with cum. I pulled Mike closer to me and gave him a deep kiss and then told him I was going to cum any minute. At that moment he picked up the pace and the next thing I knew I could feel a blast of hot cum filling my tight ass. The feeling of having this young stud fill me with his man seed sent me over the edge and immediately my own cock started shooting out streams of white semen.

Mike collapsed on top of me and slowly our cocks softened and we held each other for a while until we eventually decided to get up and clean ourselves off before anyone showed up. We quickly got dressed and headed out to the front and when I went to pay Mike for the massage he declined and said that it was on him and that I had made his day. As I left to go ski, Mike looked up from his desk and asked me how my back was feeling. It was then that I laughed since I suddenly realize that my back felt great and that the pain was completely gone. Guess all I needed was an amazing "deep tissue" massage.

bymatt_1972

How to Give a Tantric Lingam Massage

In Tantra, the penis is called the Lingam, which in Sanskrit can be translated as "Wand of Light." A Lingam massage is a massage of the male genitals using a large variety of strokes and grips. The goals of the Lingam massage are to honor your man's Lingam and to help him to expand his ability to receive pleasure.

The setting and your attitude are what make a Lingam massage a special experience for your man. Prepare a quiet, preferably dim, space with a bed, a futon mattress, or a blanket and pillows on the floor. The temperature in the room should be a little warmer than normal because you will both be nude. Lighting candles or an oil lamp in the room will keep the lighting subdued and also help generate heat. Your oills and lubricants should be within easy reach. Try to get spill-proof bottles and use plastic rather than glass. Make sure that you have a couple of hours where you won't be disturbed.

Begin by breathing together. Stand or sit face-to-face. Embrace or hold hands, look into each other's eyes, and breathe deeply into the belly. Continue looking into his eyes and breathing with him. If you find he is holding his breath, place your hand on his lower belly and remind him to breathe from that place, to "fill his belly" with his breath.

Next, have him lie face down and begin giving him a full body massage. After about 10 minutes, ask him to turn over, and then continue the massage. Advance the massage slowly toward the inner thighs and pelvis until he is breathing deeply from his belly and his body is fully relaxed.

Then, as a show of respect for his male power, ask permission to touch his Lingam. Simply ask, "May I touch your Lingam?" or, if he is more familiar with Tantric terms, "May I touch your Wand of Light?" If he gives you permission, pour a small quantity of massage oil or water-based lubricant on his Lingam and testicles. Rub the oil or lubricant into his skin, beginning at the top of the inner thighs and moving into the crease where his legs meet the pelvis floor. Using slow, steady motions. work along the connecting bone and muscles, releasing tension as you go.

Next, massage above the Lingam, on the pubic bone. Rock your hand over this place, feeling the bone beneath the muscle and skin. Then, move on to the scrotum, gently pulling and kneading his testicles. You will need to pay very close attention to his responses here and encourage him to tell you what is just right for him. Some men can't stand to have their testicles touched at all, while others enjoy stronger handling. Start gently and slowly add pressure, rather than the other way around.

From his testicles, move your hand down to massage his perineum, sometimes called the "sacred spot." Locate the small indentation, about the size of a dime, halfway between the testicles and anus. You can use downward strokes from his Lingam to his anus or a circular motion. Circle and pull at the tissues and gently push inward on the spot with your finger. Since the spot may feel painful at first, only increase pressure as much as he is comfortable with.

Finally, place your hand on his Lingam. As you massage the shaft, gently squeeze his Lingam at the base with your right hand, and pull up, sliding completely off. Then do the same with your left hand—squeeze his Lingam at the base, and pull up, sliding completely off. Then do this again with your right, then your left, and so on. After a while, change directions—slide alternating hands from the top down to the base. Then, take the Lingam between both hands and rub your hands quickly back and forth, as you wanted to start a fire. Hold his Lingam by the head and gently shake it back and forth. Thoroughly massage the head by cupping it in your palm and turning your wrist, making "juicing" motion (as if you are juicing a lemon). Move from the Lingam to the testicles to the perineum and back again, noting his responses.

If, at any point, your man seems close to ejaculation, slow your movements to reduce stimulation and let him cool down before beginning again. If he is very close, but not past the "point of no return," you may be able to delay his ejaculation by squeezing the tip of his Lingam between your thumb and forefinger. Squeeze very firmly and hold it for about thirty seconds. Encourage him to take deep breaths while you do this. Moving to the sacred spot is another way to delay ejaculation. If he starts to feel close, decrease stimulation on the Lingam and increase stimulation on the sacred spot, which should help decrease the pressure to ejaculate.

If you hold back his orgasm six times, a tremendous amount of sexual energy will be stored, which he can either retain and circulate throughout other parts of his body or release. If he chooses to ejaculate, his orgasm will probably be much more intense than usual. Keep reminding him to take deep breaths even as he ejaculates. When the massage is complete, slowly remove your hands and allow him time to relax and savor the pleasure he has just received.

5 Scrotum Massage Tips

These five scrotum massage tips come in handy for the man trying to increase his sperm count or searching for a new type of arousal. Proper scrotum massage may assist with disfunction as it increases blood circulation to the penis, allowing erection to occur naturally. The stimulation of the scrotum also simulates the body to produce more seminal fluid and therefore raises a man's sperm count. All the tips given in this article can be performed alone or with a partner. Depending on the reasoning, the massage can easily be integrated into a regular part of a healthy sex life.

1. Warm towel. Each scrotum massage should begin with a warm towel. Heat one in the dryer or simply dampen the towel with hot water. Place the towel in the region and allow to remain until the towel begins to cool. This should be a comforting or good feeling. Never make the towel too hot.

2. Stretch the skin. Scrotum massage begins with slightly stretching the skin in the region. In a laying position, pull the skin gently in a downward motion until it begins to feel loose. Never rub to the point of irritation. The skin in this area is sensitive and should not be tugged.

3. Proper pressure. A little pressure is needed for proper scrotum massage. Grasp under the sack with one hand until the inner sacks touch. Do not squeeze hard. Keep the pressure on for the entire massage.

4. Technique. For scrotum massage, gently tighten the area applied pressure. Squeeze gently and release repeatedly.

5. Frequency. Scrotum massage should be performed two to three times a week to increase the blood flow and raise sperm counts. Daily massage is the best option for those with erectile dysfunction.

by S. Jones

Rio, Brazil: A Gay Guide

Rio is everything you can expect from a Brazilian city: chaotic, steamy and vibrant. Rio de Janeiro is beautifully situated at the Atlantic coast around a coupe of bays and beaches which give you spectacular views on the city. In one glance you can see the wealth of areas like Ipanema or Copacabana and the poverty of the surrounding favelas. It proofs how fascinating Rio de Janeiro can be.

The Rio gay beach

The best areas to stay in Rio de Janeiro are the neighbourhoods of Copacabanaor Ipanema. These are the wealthier areas in town and they offer the best shops, restaurants, hotels, gay bars and clubs. And on top, both areas have the most beautiful beaches in town. And Rio summers happen on the beach: just take your towel, your latest Speedo or AussieBum, little money and hit the sand!

The gay beach, so the hotspot to show off your tan, is the beach onIpanema gay beach, at the end of the Rua Farme de Amoedo. You will recognize it from the rainbow flags and the thousands of hot guys standing between the umbrellas, showing off and cruising around. And stay on the beach till late: the moment the sun sets behind the mountains is always a magical end of a great day at the beach.

Gay nightlife in Rio

Gay nightlife in Rio starts late, very late. Do not expect the bars to fill up before midnight. But once the crowd is in and enjoying the caipirinhas or one of the local beers, the night can begin. Most of the popular gay bars are situated in either Ipanema or Copacabana, though there is not a very specific gay area. As the taxi's are dead cheap, so be sure not to walk from one bar to another. Around 2 am, the guys will move towards the clubs. Le Boy is still one of the popular choices on Copacabana, but new club The Week, down in Centro attracts the biggest crowds of cute and muscled guys.

Rio does not have a leather or other fetish scene (the weather is too hot anyway...). So if you're up for a play, you need to go to one of the many gay bath houses.

Carnaval

Next to New Years Eve at Copacabana, the Carnival Rio must be the highlight of the year. It is a fascinating weekend, as it seems the people of Rio only live for Samba. Next to all the (gay) balls and many parties, you should look out for the street carnivals, where local samba bands parade the streets of the city. One of the oldest and most gayest is theBanda de Ipanema, which parades the boulevard on Carnival Saturday and Monday, attracting thousands of people coming off the beach, and ending in a massive street party in front of Bofetada.

But without discussion, the main event of Carnival is the Samba Parade at the Sambadrome. This is main competition of all the Rio Samba Schools. On Carnival Sunday and Monday, the 12 best schools parade the special strip, watched by hundred thousands of spectators. This is how you know Rio Carnival: outrageous costumes, massive floats and all glitz and feathers. Each school presents a theme and has exactly 80 minutes to parade the strip. And the most impressive school wins....

You can buy tickets for the special boxes in advance. These (tourists) tickets will cost you at least a couple of hundred dollars. If you're not willing to spend that money, and are okay with a view a bit further off, just buy tickets for the cheaper grandstands and the beginning or end of the strip just on the streets around Sambadrome. Carnival is a once in a life time experience...

Safety

A short but important note on safety: Rio is a big and mainly poor city. There are a few rules to take into consideration for your safety: do not bring too much money with you on the streets or when you are going out to the bars, don't bring your expensive camera or jewellery in public. At night, take a cab (even for a few blocks). Do not bring strangers into your hotel room. Our experience is that the guys who are not speaking English, tend to be more after your money. If you want to have sex with one of the local cuties, go to one of the sex hotels and rent a room for a couple of hours.

The Sensation of 20 Fingers

Ahhh... the beauty and sensation of a 4-handed massage. All those 20 fingers rubbing every inch of your body, taking you to pleasures never felt before.The simultaneous touch of four hands on your body is bound to take you beyond the mind, beyond the body, beyond the everyday reality. The world will look different when you open your eyes and take the step back into your life. You will have a clearer vision, relaxed and nourished body and uplifted spirit.

It was once difficult to find and although not every masseur offers this luxury it is much more prevalent than before. On average, it will set you back around $140, but often well worth the price. If a masseur does not list the service on their masseur page or profile many times they are happy to find that second pair of hands to indulge you.

The brain can track where one person is and so likely to touch, its expected, but two people completely confuse the brain and each erotic touch is completely unexpected, your skin goes into a heightened state sending waves of pleasure from each caress, it literally feels like you have 10 hands all over your body.

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What Should I Massage with?

Whether you plan to give a garden-variety backrub or a full-scale sensual massage, you’ll need some lubrication — a bone-dry massage can actually hurt! Fortunately, a multitude of products are available to choose from. We recommend keeping at least one of each type of massage product on hand — you never know when you’ll have a massage emergency!

Massage Oils

Massage oils do a variety of useful things: they spice up a boring night, lend a sensual dimension to a boring old back rub, and reduce friction, keeping your body silky, slippery and slick. Available in a wide variety of flavors and viscosities, most massage oils are non-toxic and safe to ingest in small quantities. However, make sure you read the bottle before you lick massage oil off your lover’s back! A night of sensual massage should not result in a trip to the doctor.

The Kama Sutra Aweet Almond massage oil is specifically formulated to leave you feeling smooth, moisturized but never greasy. Made from Cold-pressed oils and infused with Pure Almond Essence, it soothes your mood as well as your skin.

To use massage oil, pour a small amount in the palm of your hand and rub your hands together before gently applying to your lover’s body. Never pour the oil directly on from the bottle — it feels cold and weird. Rub the lotion or oil into your lover’s body, reapplying as necessary. If you have oily skin, make sure you shower after your massage: many massage oils can cause breakouts on your back or chest.

Feel free to rub oil into your lover’s back, arms, legs, buttocks, chest and neck, but keep it away from genitals unless the bottle specifically says the lotion is safe for internal use. Even if it is safe, test a small amount on the skin first, ensuring you and your lover won’t have an allergic or “burning” reaction to it. Massage oils are not safe to use with latex products, such as sex toys or condoms, unless the bottle specifically states otherwise. Massage oils should also not be used as a lubricant for penetration, unless the product has been specifically formulated for anal, vaginal or oral play.
Massage Lotions

Pheromones Lotion

If you don’t like slightly greasy residue that massage oils can leave behind, you might want to try a massage lotion. In addition to being a little less slippery, massage lotions don’t usually cause breakouts, as massage oils have been known to do. If you have oily skin, you may want to start with a lotion, as opposed to oil. However, massage lotions also moisturize dry, flaky skin, so if you have dry or combination skin, they’re a safe bet too.

Our Pheromones Lotion feels soft and silky and absorbs lightly into the skin. Smelling of crisp Cucumber and Melon and formulated with pheromones, you will find yourself relaxed and decidedly happier after your massage.

While you can use regular hand lotion for a back rub, it’s best to use lotions specifically developed for massage. They leave less of a sticky residue and often have a pleasant aroma and/or taste. Try to avoid the Ben Gay-scented athletic tonics when combining sex with massage — the mentholated fumes, while effective at relieving stress and tension from the body, can be a huge sensual turnoff.

Massage lotions are used in much the same way as oils: rub a tablespoon-sized dollop between your hands, and then apply it with long, languorous strokes. You’ll need to reapply lotions more often than oils as lotions are usually absorbed more quickly. Also, unlike oils, lotions can usually be rejuvenated with a spritz of water from a spray bottle, which also creates a pleasantly slippery texture that can be quite erotic.

Like massage oils, lotions will destroy latex products, such as sex toys or condoms, unless the bottle specifically states otherwise. Also, massage lotions should never be used internally, for activities such as vaginal or anal play. Many lotions are non-toxic, and therefore safe to lick; however, you’ll want to check the bottle’s label first. Be warned: lotions that aren’t specifically made to be edible (which is different than non-toxic) can taste really terrible, so you may want to avoid oral experimentation unless you’re using a product formulated for oral play.

Warming Lotions

While not the best option for full-body massages, warming oils, also known as edible oils, are great for genital massage, or for massaging small, concentrated areas, such as breasts, buttocks, thighs and arms.

Warming oils work about the same way massage oils work: pour a small puddle in one hand, rub both hands together to distribute, then apply in a thin layer to the desired area. Gently rub into the skin, applying more as necessary. As you continue to massage, the warming oil will begin to heat up, causing your partner to feel a pleasantly warm sensation.

Some warming oils can’t be used with latex products — make sure to read the label before using. Warming oils aren’t appropriate for internal use — don’t use them for vaginal or anal penetration. However, you can apply them to the surface of your genitals. Be warned: some of the warmth-inducing elements may irritate skin; do a skin patch test before using during sex or your genitals may end up hotter than you intended.

Whether or not you feel comfortable using massage products or warming oils at every sexual encounter, it’s smart to have a few bottles lying around in case you need them. Most keep for a couple of years without damage; open the bottle and sniff them before using. If the bottle smells unpleasant, or if there’s any icky-looking residue, toss it. It’s better to be safe than sorry.