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How To Make Hands Soft

Soft and smooth hands are within your reach, regardless of the beating you put them through during the day. All you need to do is take a few precautions and put in a little effort and you can easily get soft hands. Learn how to keep or make your hands delightfully soft with the following tips.

Instructions

1. Take precautionary measures to protect the skin on your hands. For example, wear rubber gloves when cleaning or doing the dishes. If you're gardening, be sure to use special gardening gloves.

2. Avoid leaving your hands exposed to the elements. When it starts to get cold, wear gloves. If it's just slightly cool, you can use those thin stretchable gloves. Increase the thickness of your gloves as the temperatures get cooler.

3. Wear sunscreen. The sun can damage the skin on your hands just as easily as it can damage the skin on your face or other parts of your body. Be sure to apply sunscreen to your hands to keep them soft and prevent them from becoming like cured leather. Rub the sunscreen into your hands as you would lotion until all of it's absorbed into the skin.

4. Massage your hands to increase blood circulation to the skin and make it softer. Self hand massage is also a great stress reliever. Place some lotion or even a teaspoon of olive oil on the palm of one hand.

5. Rub the palms together and then use the thumb of the opposite hand to massage the palm in a circular motion while keeping your fingers interlaced. Repeat with the other hand. Turn one hand over and massage from the wrist to the finger tips gently pulling on them as you finish. Use a circular motion, and then repeat with the other hand.

6. Apply petroleum jelly to your hands before you go to bed at night. Make sure you apply a generous layer and then put on cotton gloves so you don't make a mess of your sheets. If you don't have cotton gloves, then cotton socks will work just fine.

7. Rub lotion into your hands several times a day if possible.

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Mike: Masseur of the Month

Cities: New York City
Phone: (718) 309-5207
Email: MagicMike718@aol.com

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ALL HIS WORK IS DONE ON A PROFESSIONAL MASSAGE TABLE IN AN IMMACULATELY CLEAN, QUIET AND COMFORTABLE ENVIRONMENT SPECIFICALLY SET UP FOR THE ULTIMATE MASSAGE EXPERIENCE. WHETHER TO SOOTH TIRED AND SORE MUSCLES, TO INVIGORATE AND ENERGIZE, OR FOR JUST PURE RELAXATION, HIS CUSTOMIZED MASSAGE WILL TAKE YOU THERE.

Pink Tantric Massage Treatment

A unique approach to tantric massage by a masseur named BodyWorkLarry.

There are three types of Tantra: White, Red, and Pink. White Tantra is philosophical, psychological, and spiritual. It can be done with a partner or alone by trying to raise one's Kundalini energy. This means trying to move your spine like a snake by only using your core muscles. Red Tantra is done with a partner or escort, receiving and giving equally of each other, surrendering one's orgasm, ejaculation into a greater consciousness together. Pink Tantra is a combination of Red and White, sensual and therapeutic at the same time done with a partner or masseur.

A Pink Tantric Massage Treatment takes at least 2 hours to complete at a cost of $120. This kind of massage is for those seeking a kind of inward bound release in their body. Most of the people who come to see me have one foot on the brake and the other on the gas. I create a safe environment for you to take the brakes off without harm. An example of Tantra is when you pet a dog, and their back moves with your hand and their tongue expresses its own form of gratification. Real corporeal relaxation begins with drooling (the unintentional loss of saliva from the mouth), an extremely good oral phenomenon that releases great quantities of tension in the neck and face muscles.

I have designed Pink Tantra to be more about you receiving energy than giving it. It's about letting-go of control through reestablishing a sort of trust with your own inner child. Some of us really need to connect with another man within a safe environment to experience healing intimacy. I like to say, "that your little boy comes out to play with my little boy." My practice combines white and red concepts of Tantra into Pink Tantra for this purpose.

Most massage practices in America are strictly clinical and non-sensual. I believe as Freud, everything is sensual, especially if you are in the feeling body. I like to bring clients back into their bodies for a somatic experience. The act of feeling the bodies' responses is wonderful and pleasurable, as well as healing.

Karmic Release: Letting-go of the chains that bind you

Most of the people who are attracted to Tantra are on a journey, where sexual healing plays a leading role in their search for understanding, greater pleasure and satisfaction.

I work with the whole karmic persona. The human body is a medium in which I like to work, because it holds the keys to one's liberation through physical expression.

Freedom can be beautiful and wonderful, especially when you release the karma that binds you. Many souls have been sexually initiated before their time, shutting off their feelings when touched by freezing their core muscles in connection with their breath. The early years can be better understood and reclaimed through touch and breath awareness.

The challenge is permitting the letting-go process (receiving) and the holding on process (control) to share versatilely in the exchange. I tutor you on how to facilitate, integrate, and balance the exchange of receiving touch. This is accomplished by both of us staying karmically aware and in tuned with the process.

Quite of few pharmaceutical medications can interrupt the ability of the libido to function, blocking one's core response. Tantra can reawaken and reintegrate the system by rebooting the original software.

Tantric massage and release movements facilities primal activation, rebuilding and repairing your directory, and data recovery from the past; thereby, updating your current program.

Karmic release melts the glue, binding substance of excessive crystallization and collagen build-up between the connective tissue layers caused by stress and/or trauma. Local blood flow and exchange is improved, and an increase in hormonal circulation can take place producing greater health and performance for you.

The over all process sets the stage for a greater energetic expression and release, like Tony the Tiger in the Kellogg's Sugar Frosted Flakes commercial when he say's 'GR-R-REAT!'

Pain or Pleasure?

Treating the breast center, nipple or in Chinese, Ruzhong (acupuncture point-Stomach 17) can be clinically satisfactory or painful. Touch is a personal matter. As individuals, we have special and unique feelings and needs around touch. Personal preferences are addressed and taken seriously. One man's pleasure, can be another man's pain!

Tantric massage opens and unblocks the erogenous zones. The nipples should be a pleasure zone when touched with the right amount of pressure, a place of feeling and erotic connection with the lower Chakras. I help you to re-open the channels between the big head and the little one, thereby inviting stimulation and increased enjoyment.

Relaxation is a result of upper and lower Chakra integration. I call it putting your vehicle into 'all wheel drive.' Tantra is best learned with a manual transmission, especially if you really want good performance and handling. You can think of it as learning how to drive a stick shift with a sensitive clutch. The clutch pedal is pressed and release with the greatest of mindfulness and assertiveness.

Nipple Sensitivity: Opening the Heart Chakra 

In a Tantric body, nipple play leads to a pre-cum response.
The nipples are sensual ports of entry that networks with the rest of the body.
Nipple stimulation is important for sensual play and receiving a heart connection from your partner.
Very little feeling and excitement, or extreme sensitivity in the nipples can be changed.
I can especially help you in unwinding and releasing the tension through breath and body mobilization.

Tantric Expression

This is not your typical spa treatment. Here you are free to express your Kundalini energy and fully discharge it. You are allowed and encouraged to move freely and naturally on the massage table. The act of losing control during a session while on the table can be quite wonderful. The joy of absolute surrender is beyond words. Being one with one self is truly a divine experience.

All bodies need and desire touch. Sensitive stimulation creates flow and detoxification in the tissues. Life is a process of flowing movements symbolized by the breath. Restriction of the breath can create seals and blockages (dis-ease) within the body, limiting it’s potentiality. Nurturing touch awakens the body’s innate healing powers for wellness.

Orifice Breathing

Orifice breathing focuses on the relaxation of the guardian muscles mostly around the mouth and anus. This state of breathing is relax and non-aerobic. It exercises 'cellular breathing,' an internal respiratory process of the parasympathetic nervous system.

When the body is tense and the mind is stressed, it becomes rigid and overly yang, hard. Stanley Keleman, author of the "Emotional Anatomy" describes rigidity as a state of mind and body. Dr. William Reich call's this phenomenon, character armor and Dr. Sigmund Freud call's it oral-anal repression.

There are nine orifices: eyes, ears, nostrils, mouth, sexual organ, and anus. Each is a door way for karmic release and greater ecstasy. Freud does call this behavior, the pleasure principle.

Stressed muscles are tense, and usually, isometrically contracted and more shut off; thereby, limiting the body's ability to properly function and feel pleasure. Relaxed muscles are better able to feel pleasure for a total orgasmic response.

Anal Awakening

Anal initiation or awakening has to do with activating the Kundalini process. Anatomically, the coccygeal and lower pelvis is the base foundation for prostate and linage health and activity. Very few civilized men can feel or breathe from their first Chakra; usually, because of charged stored emotional and mental stress in the body, and too much sedentary sitting.

In shamanic terms, this place is a power house with a lot of stored energy. Karmic release is absolute for good heath. Orifice opening and closing at this location that is properly timed with the breath will give you more pleasure and greater corporal response. Somatic awareness increases with the flow of Kundalini, bringing greater intensity and release to the body. Anal awakening removes pelvic energy interference, improving one's innate intelligence at the base level of expression.

Ergonomically, as a culture we sit too much at work, traveling, and home. Sitting on furniture places the body in a C curve pattern, which compresses our spines and energy fields. Systemic contraction is released and expanded through the work by creating a S curve pattern of orgasmic motion like Elvis moving his hips when he sang and danced.

Being touched and responding in a pleasurable way is the goal of a Pink Tantric massage, a total release of tension and stress. The concept of moving and breathing in a Tantric way is new for most adults. The process of letting-go, being responsive while being touched is quite interesting and fun. Yes, you can so call dance during a massage by allowing your spine and pelvis to naturally, rhythmically move. Core muscles can be awakened and brought out of retirement. You are never to old to be reactivated! Here is a place where you can come to be natural, sensual, and alive. The fact is acting out your true nature is wonderful and healthy.

Health Benefits and Improvements 

Health benefits and improvements included in a Pink Tantric massage happen when the so called 'brakes' are released, permitting the body to move easily when touched. For instance, when you pet a dog's back their whole body engages you. Relaxation is a real challenge. It is a restoration period of recharging, releasing, and receiving touch. As human beings, responding to pleasurable touch will lead to a longer and happier life.

- Greater orifice sensitivity and feeling
- Increase in pleasure reception
- Enhanced sexual, libido response
- Fuller and more potent orgasms
- Overall calmness and relaxation
- Better control of urination and less frequency
- Less chance of cancer development
- Improved bowel movements
- Lowered blood pressure
- Better postural movement
- Healthier sex organs (prostate/ovaries)
- Clarity of thinking after the massage

To contact this masseur:
BodyWorkLarry@comcast.net - 612.868.3704

Gay men more likely to have cancer

Cancer is always bad news, but a new study suggests homosexuals may struggle more than the rest.

Researchers at the Boston University School of Public Health found that gay men were 1.9 times more likely to report a cancer diagnosis than their straight counterparts. And lesbian and bisexual female cancer survivors were twice as likely to report fair or poor health compared to straight women. That comes from analysis of more than 120,000 people in a California health survey.

The strange findings left study authors with more questions than answers. Are gay men more likely to get cancer or more likely to survive? What about human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), which is more prevalent amongst gay men? Study author Dr. Ulrike Boehmer told Reuters that HIV may be leading to an increased cancer risk in gay men, but the research did not specifically address the question. Higher rates of anal cancer amongst gay men might also be to blame.

Boehmer said what is clear is that more research is needed and the gay, lesbian and bi populations may need more help.

"Because more gay men report as cancer survivors, we need foremost programs for gay men that focus on primary cancer prevention and early cancer detection," Boehmer said in a statement. "Because more lesbian and bisexual women than heterosexual women with cancer report that they are in poor health, we need foremost programs and services that improve the well-being of lesbian and bisexual cancer survivors," 

The study was published in the journal Cancer.

Bamboo Massage Therapy

Bamboo massage therapy is increasing in popularity. Given most often in spas in the West, this type of massage therapy is soothing while being quite deep. During the session the therapist uses bamboo tools to perform the massage.

Bamboo is a sturdy versatile plant that is found in abundance throughout Asia. It can be used to make clothe and even used to build houses. The plant has traditional significance in many countries. It symbolizes strength of character, resilience, flexibility, honesty, and simplicity.

This type of massage originates in Malaysia, but combines elements of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Tibetan bodywork and Polynesian styles.

During the therapy you will lay on a massage table. The therapist uses large amounts of massage oil to allow the bamboo to glide evenly over the skin. The bamboo tools are warmed to help them warm your muscle tissue making it easier for the therapist to massage you more deeply.

The tools vary and size and shape so they can easily be used to massage all areas of your body. Longer sticks of various widths are used for gliding strokes. Smaller tools can be used for more detailed work.

The bamboo helps the therapist give you a deep massage. She only has to use a minimal amount of physical exertion to penetrate deep underlying layers of tissue.

This type of massage can be used to treat a variety of chronic pain conditions, including back pain and headaches.

Next time you notice bamboo massage offered on a spa brochure, try it. You may decide to make this soothing deep tissue therapy part of your regular health routine.

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